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Dedicated to all who are seeking or have already found Love
Initially, I thought to start with words how the relationship are developed, what are their stages, laws, etc. But today I decided to change slightly the order of information in the article and start with the main... Love:) Because everything else – in fact, is secondary, if there’s no the major part – Love.
Love – what for do You need It?
"It's good that Love so much hurt your heart,
because a man who was not hurt by Love for a woman
– is only a half of a man"
Not long time ago one very nice man expressed an interesting point of view on Love: «I can really love, which usually men don't do....». I must admit I was very surprised by that view, and if he were a girl, I would recommend him to change the surroundings, especially the male part. After all, such an opinion reveals only one thing: what kind of people a person communicates the most.
My practice of communication and guiding people of both genders shows something else: all love, all suffer, all want to get back a beloved one. Therefore, dear sister, – here I address just to you – if you will ever give rise to such an opinion in your heart – "men are not able to Love", "they all need just one thing from me" etc., immediately think who surrounds you.
The ability to evoke certain feelings – is another obvious confirmation of the words above.
For example, what feelings does a prostitute evoke? That's right, not very good ones. The best she can evoke is lust. In other words, a woman with inner content of a prostitute will evoke just such feelings. What feelings does the image of the Lady Mary evoke? Awe, adoration, respect... So, a woman with the content that’s like the one this Saint has will evoke similar feelings. Should I remind you that Lady Mary was a real woman who lived among others?
I’ve pictured here two extreme cases. Let’s take another image – Aphrodite, the Goddess of Love. It’s well known that Aphrodite never suffered because of Love. And that’s impossible – She was Love by Herself:) Well, how can Love suffer because of Itself?:) Aphrodite was the favourite of Gods and humans. She easily attracted Love and adoration of men into Her life. And just She received the apple from Paris – as the most beautiful of Olympus Goddesses. And there’s no wonder – what else can be more beautiful than endless as ocean, pure as blue sky and bright as raising star, Love?...
Yes, my lovely sisters, I’m leading you just to this – your inner Love, your Aphrodite – will attract into your life just this amazing feeling and in the measure, volume and duration, what you are starving for.
Giving birth to Love in yourself – or it’s more exactly to say – awaking of sleeping Aphrodite – is uneasy and long process. But who said it’s easy to be a Woman?:) However, it’s not our “cross”, but we are blessed being ourselves, sisters! After all, only we can be Love, and it means to live in Love...forever.
And only energy we have inside is able to inspire men to make great deeds, and after all we need it much:) And it’s necessary not only for us – but men also need to make those deeds. Because only in this way they perform their mission – through activity, asserting themselves in the world outside, win by win, recognition, respect and admiration because of their achievements!.... My lovely sisters, believe, please, in your men! They deserve it! Even if today they do not justify your expectations and instead of that cause disappointments, only one your belief can create a miracle and give them wings.
Love of two – «Heart»
Today I was walking along the riverside, over rocks, and was listening to the Nature breathe... Many people call Her wild, although She is the most harmonious and subordinated to law and order... as well as relationship of two. The only thing you need – is to understand its principals and laws – in order to have the same Harmony in your couple.
I was wandering over the rocks and thinking how much obvious wisdom is contained in ordinary things. Do you know what does the «heart» mean? I mean this sign, smile that we all draw. True, it’s the Love symbol. But do you know why does it have just this shape? After all, the heart – as the human’s organ – has another shape. So why?
Take a look at the picture below.
Love – is union of two people by all chakras (energetic centres), beginning with Muladhara (material world) and finishing by Sahasrara – the crown chakra (spiritual world). In other words, Love – is fusion of a man and a woman in material and spiritual beings. Evidently, to have this total fusion it’s necessary for both to be equal by all 7 energetic indicators, to supplement each other.
It’s established by Nature, that we, my lovely sisters, are much more flexible and able to catch energetic pulses of men. That’s why if you really love somebody and you believe that he is the One, do not grudge your energy to «tune» in his waves to create a harmonious couple with him.
Laws of relationship development
Everything in the world falls into line with laws. Seasons permanently change each other; animals and humans grow, becoming elder; fruit come after flower blossom; and even relationship of two never stand at the same point.
Everything in the world develops in accordance with some laws. And while in schools and colleges we learn the laws of mathematics, economics, physics – the laws of relationship development – the most important part of our life, our happiness – are not given anywhere. And just like this we go by our path, making mistakes, changing partners one by one in search of just this desirable and dreamlike condition – Happiness...
So it’s time to learn how to build relationship. Let’s start.
Stages of relationship
"The talk of spouses:
— You are boor! You were and is boor still!!!
— So why did you marry boor?!
— I was goose!
— You were and is goose still!!" :D
Every house is standing on foundation. If there’s no foundation under the house it will slump, curve or will be destroyed – any builder can confirm that. Foundation – is a house bases. If it has bad quality, the house is needed to be pulled down, and the building process should be done again starting with foundation... The same you have in relationship. 5 stages of relationship building – are 5 rules, 5 phases, which you should go through to create solid foundation for future of your relationship. If one of the stages is not passed, lost, the whole foundation is not qualitative, and relationship will show a rift or will be destroyed...
1st Stage. Attraction
"It seemed to be like the perfect thing for you and me
It's so ironic you're what I had pictured you to be
But there are facts in our lives
We can never change"
Very interesting stage. It’s the very beginning. It’s considered that a man is attracted to a woman, first of all, physically: by appearance, behaviour, manners. And it’s reasonable. A Woman – is the creative energy of the Universe, so that she’s expected to give inspiration to a man: for creation of masterpiece or earning money, achieving success, or even for desire tritely to throw out trash :D So it’s obvious, men are much attracted to this creative energy that is expressed in voice, clothes, make-up, features, and even gestures – in the whole our image.
Creative energy contains the big part of sexual energy. That’s why, my lovely ladies, you shouldn’t get offended because of the fact that in beginning of relationship men are looking at you as sexual object. Just enjoy it – like you usually enjoy marvellous dessert with fruit with whipped cream:) And let a man to enjoy your amazing creative energy. Pleasure – is a big and wonderful power! :D
In other words, lovely sisters: the more this inspiring energy you have, the more you are attractive, – without regards on age. Age – in fact is comparative thing; your energy is the power that attracts, ladies. This power in many women is becoming less and less year by year. But it’s possible and necessary to fulfil it. But we talk about it later.
A man, on the contrary, attracts intellectually. «Intellectually» – doesn’t always mean «by intellect, brains». Intellectually – means, that she will picture you in her imagination with everything that has and doesn’t have relation to you in reality:) Being creative energy of the Universe we, women, have very developed imagination. And we can picture there such things that you could barely ever imagine, precious men! :P
So that’s why just on this stage, my lovely sisters, I want to warn you: do not switch on your fantasy too much, do not build illusions regarding to a man and his REAL opportunities and intentions – in order not to have the same outcome as in one Russian song: «I made him of what there were, and then fell in love with what I made» :)
That’s the reason, ladies, why the Love at first sight is more dangerous for us, than men. So do not be aimed to give your heart and soul too rapidly. Take a proper look at a man in the beginning, then get know him better, and only after that...:D
2nd Stage. Doubts
The conversation of ex-wife and present girl-lover:
— So how’s my Billy there?
Hasn’t you sucked already all his blood?
— After you there’s just a little of it left.
Due to different natural features of men, and their past experience, they are inclined to live a period of doubts. This stage is necessary – of course, if you want to have long-term relationship. Women sometimes also step into this phase of relationship, but more often we know what we want and do not want from the very beginning. That’s why they say a woman chooses.
If a man doesn’t step into this stage by himself, doesn’t distance from you after the first attraction, after he expressed the desire to start relationship with you, then you, my lovely sisters, should distance by yourselves on short time. It’s necessary. If you just want to have an affair and ready to be faced with possible break in future, you can escape this stage.
How you should behave during the period of his doubts? Just like when he distances for his wonderful «cave» :) You can read about it here: http://www.oranum.com/articles/3052-Private+Space%3A+Do+You+Have+It%3F
3rd Stage. Hearts union
"I feel it in my fingers
I feel it in my toes
Love is all around me
And so the feeling grows"
Wet Wet Wet
In this phase a man and a woman start to feel they want to spend more time with each other, and in general do not pay that attention on others. It’s a period when you both begin to feel the desire to become the One for the beloved person. During this stage the feeling grows, becomes deeper. The most important in this moment – not to rush. You should realize that the 3rd stage is not the last one in relationship building, so that’s why there’s no sense and it’s not wise to rush to marry in this period. Give the feeling opportunity to become stronger and deeper.
4th Stage. Soul connection
"I just wanna feel
Real love fills the home that I live in"
Very important stage in relationship. In this period a man and a woman truly open themselves – in other words they show as well those sides of their personalities which were hidden before. In this phase it’s very important to show yourself not only from the best side, but to let a partner to see the opposite side of the “medal”. By opening our less attractive features in presence of each other we become truly close. Here, my lovely readers, it’s very important not to “present” yourself, but just to live. The main thing you need to remember: do not jump to the 4th stage in the very beginning of relationship and show your disadvantages – it will be like a bucket of cold water on the head of your partner :D Who talks about negative features of a car during the sale before showing its perfect opportunities and advantages?:)
5th Stage. Engagement
"Not to look at each other, but to look in the same direction
– that means real Love" Antoine de Saint-Exupery
The final stage of relationship building, but it’s not the last one from the point of view of relationship development. In this phase we can already say they are built. Now your task is just to keep fire in your fireplace – develop your relationship. Development – it’s making relationship deeper. The world doesn’t stand at the same point, so you change every moment of your life, as well as your partner. That’s why your relationship should be developed in unison with you:)
Why relationship doesn’t work?
There can be one and thousand reasons for that – and in every case there’s own one. If after you read this article you’ll understand that one of these 5 stages was lost, it means, you’ll have to start from the very beginning – with this partner or another one – here it depends on the wish of both. I’m often asked whether it’s possible or not to get a beloved one back. I can share one secret with you, lovely ladies (just ladies :P): there’s nothing impossible, the question is only in time in every concrete case and your readiness to put enough efforts and patience, of course. Because sometimes it happens that while you are reaching the result, the desire to be just with this person disappears.
Anyway, if you are separating for a while or forever, try to let him go with Love and... sincerely, without sham. Yes, I know what is that and I know how it’s difficult. But only in this way you’ll have a chance to clean your space for coming of MUTUAL Love into your life – maybe with the same person, or maybe with the another one. Just rely on the wise Universe, my lovely readers, – you’ll be surprised, how happy you can be!:)
And remember, please: I’m not your teacher, but your guide and open you things your precious Soul knows already. I remind Her only...
If you are lost and do not know whether he/she is the right one or not, let me offer you the special reading with a help of my magnificent and beloved Tarot Deck “Sexual Magic” – “Compatibility”. This reading will clarify the question how much you and your partner are compatible by bodies, Souls and minds for each other.
And the last thing...
I announce the song of a day!:)))))))))
Queen "Las Palabras de Amor":
"Las Palabras de Amor
Let me hear the words of Love"
Love Energy bless You!!! <3 <3 <3
Your Love Energy Conductor,
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